TWIN FLAME - The painful relationship that we do not understand..... WHY?!

If you dont believe in any spiritual journey , then, this article is not for you...

TWIN FLAME is not a soulmate. soulmate is a soul connection that doesn't always romantic or physical.. soulmate can be friends, family or partner. soulmate just click and complete each other, you can encounter many soulmate in your life, in many situaltion and/or relationship, everyone have and meet their soulmate, some soulmate stay and gone but they always teach you a lesson.. Twin Flame is a Mirror... the good things and the bad things, its just like meeting a missing piece of your self. not everyone in this lifetimes meeting their Twinflame, in fact thhis is a rare spiritual connection and this is will turn one's world around. 

many of people ending up with their soulmate instead, because the twinflames phase is too painful for them to handle, the runner runs forever, the chaser was badly hurt and decided to move on away from this wicked painful journey, so the united can not be achieved right now.

I am a strong believe of Twinflame relationship. and i know how painful it is..This is not for everyone,  not every relationship is Twinflame. not because your relationships is painful that's a sign of twinflame. no. twinflame sign is a deep soul connection, that you can explain, the amazing physical connection, that almost magical you sometimes get lost and never get enough. twin flame is NOT painful because you constantly fight or argue, its not painful because the other can not understand you, it is not painful because you seems like get ignore during your time together or because of cheating, disloyal, unsatisfied or other cheap things that destroy relationship. 

the contrary, twin flame connection are so beautiful, the most of all, you just clicked, your just fill each other gaps body and soul. you will have your best laugh, your best sex, your best smiles... but, it is painful because after all this happiness, you enter this Runner and Chaser phases... you are too happy, everything seems too good to be true, that its rather make you hold tighter or scare the shit out of you so you feel like this cant be right, and you feels like run, yes, the holding on one is the Chaser, and the scare one is the runner. 

We were having this fantastic but short lived relationship with the most wonderful Man or Woman we had ever met, everything was Heavenly and then Bam!! they were gone! We can’t believe it, we are devastated and they are apparently just fine without us?

Nothing makes sense. We can’t understand how they could just walk away from the best thing that ever happened to us? Wasn’t it like that for them too?  We feel like our Heart was ripped out of our chest!

We cry to our well meaning friends and family and are given the sound advice to “just forget about someone that would treat us like that. That they must not have been that “into” us. That we are a prize and soon we will be happily in the arms of someone that appreciates us”.

So we nod our heads and agree but even though we try to get over them, we know something that our well meaning friends and family don’t. We know that this wasn’t something we had ever felt before and deep, deep down inside we know that we will never feel like that with anyone else ever again, except them. And that Twin Flames is why they call it the “The Glimpse of Heaven”.

twin flame meet not only happen in one circle of life times, yes i am talking about past life and next life here (laugh if you want, but even Einstein is strong believer of Past Life). and the concept are connecting, you meet your twinflame so many past life or future life depends on how the connection, what happen is you will keep meeting each other until you get to the united phase. yes, you might not united in this lifetimes, the runner could run forever and then ended up with seperation, you marrying and ended up with your soulmate instead. and then.. next life.. puff.. here we go again... the circle start over, universe will keep you bouching to each other in every lifetimes until you both united... 

“If the Universe wants Twin Flames to be together why do we have to go through this “Runner” stage anyways?”

If the Universe just handed us these Yummy Relationships on a Silver Platter with everything awesome, wonderful and Happily Ever After, with no strings attached, we would probably just lay around luxuriating with our Twin Flames or goofing off somewhere and not get any of our Spiritual Work done.

Yes, There is a Lesson you need to learn before this sacred reunion, and as all the important lessons never comes easy.

So the Universe shows us how wonderful the rewards of this union/relationship could be (the Glimpse of Heaven) and then they take it away from us. How long this phase lasts depends on how Spiritually advanced we are or make ourselves.

As you probably already know we as Souls are down here on Earth to learn Spiritual Lessons in the School of Life. As Twin Flames we actually signed up for the harder Lessons in this School.

If you aren’t learning your Spiritual Lessons in a willing, progressive manner your Twin Flame Journey may take you on a divergent path for as long as it takes to get you back to your Spiritual Work!

So my best advice is to try very hard to not be rebellious and just grow up and start learning and moving forward towards the Love and Light, because as you will find out the rewards are HUGE and the Union or Re-Union with your Twin Flame is even better than the “Glimpse of Heaven” was. the ULTIMATE PRICE

So Let’s Begin. If your Twin Flame is a “Runner” or just a reluctant Twin Flame please:

1. Respect their boundaries. If they are silent it is a boundary they have set. If they are not answering your texts wait for at least 3 weeks to a month before contacting them again. Give them the freedom and space to work on their problems in their own time.
2. Don’t abandon them either. Leave the door to your Heart wide open for them to come back. When they do act as if they were never gone, as if you just saw them yesterday. Resist the urge to question them about it and for heavens sake don’t make the mistake of blasting them or they will be gone again in a flash.
3. Be humble if you did already blast them or sent them a text that was anything less than Loving. Send a very short apology and don’t expect an answer.
4. In the meantime become Emotionally stable by sending healing Love and Light to your Ego, your Inner Child and your Inner Adult.
5. Release any and all negative Emotions, especially Judgement. Replace it with Compassion. Start to see the relationship with Compassion towards them rather than what you can get from the relationship.
6. Remember if you are feeling anger or resentment towards them they will feel it too and it will repel them. Replace these negative Emotions with pure Unconditional Love.
7. Learn to have and hold in your heart space Unconditional Love for Yourself, Your Twin Flame and all others including your God and the Universe. It is this Unconditional Love that draws them back to you and makes the Twin Flame relationship work. Love them despite what is going on.
8. Learn patience. That means to actually embody it for yourself and your entire life. Don’t just fake patience that won’t work, learn to surrender the time line for the relationship over to your Higher Power and go with the Flow. Don’t indulge in worrying, remember worrying is a prayer that you are saying for what you DON’T want. Replace worry with knowing that they will be back as all Twin Flames are meant to be together.
9. Replace any Pain with Happiness! Why, because our Twins want us to be Happy. Say frequently I AM so Happy and Grateful for the opportunities to learn and grow Spiritually that My Twin Flame has given to me!! Repeat this statement 11 times. It will make you smile and you will be happier.
10. Ask the Universe to surround you with your Angels and Guides that work with Twin Flames. Call upon them for help and get silent so that you can hear them. They will help you on your Journey. Connect to the Love and Light from the Universe above and ground to Mother Earth many times a day.
11. Never say another negative word or complain about your Twin Flame to anyone. Instead write a HUGE list of all the wonderful things that you Love about them. Act, think and speak with Love and Compassion about and to Your Twin Flame.

These are only some of the ways that you can Help your Twin Flame “Runner”. 

and know that you might not always unite with your twin flame in this life, and that is okay too, it is painful, but the most lesson you learn usually to "heal" and Love yourself more.

Love and lights...