9 Things You Need To Know Before You Date A Libra Woman

From Elite Daily

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Fair. Loyal. Intellectual. Creative.

Have I piqued your interest yet? I'm here to tell you that there's nothing sexier than a Libra woman.

The Libra's sign is the scale, which symbolizes her thirst for justice in life and love. She is ruled by Venus, the planet of love and beauty: two things she never stops chasing.

An air sign, the Libra woman values over all else her ability to connect emotionally. And, as it turns out, she is most compatible with someone just like her: the Libra man.

Libras seek peace and harmony in every area of their lives. They may be innately attracted to drama, but they're intuitive enough to know exactly when they have to trim the excess fat.

The Libra is a “people person,” but she can also be painfully shy.

She appreciates the finer things in life, but she doesn't always need glitz and glam. She finds a poetry reading just as enlightening as the finest wine or a fancy restaurant.

Libra women love to be loved, but they want someone who will be patient with them when it comes to opening up. With every new relationship, it can be hard for her to truly know what she wants and be able to vocalize that, but rest assured, once a Libra woman loves you, she definitely shows it.

In return, all she asks is for someone to love her as much as she loves them. Here's what you need you to know about how to love a Libra woman for EVERYTHING she is.

The charismatic Libra woman can charm even the grumpiest man and make anyone crack a smile.

With such an amazing personality and optimistic outlook on life, it might seem hard to imagine a woman like this getting angry (like fiery, better-get-out-of-the-way angry), but trust me: A Libra woman can, and will, hold her own in an argument.

she's so empathic that she cries when you're crying, just because she feels emotions so strongly. When a Libra is in a relationship, she wants to know (first and foremost) that her feelings are cherished and respected

Libra women swallow their feelings in a sacrificial way to please others and make sure everyone around them is happy. This isn't necessarily because she is a push-over or worried about other people's happiness over her own, but rather because simply making others happy makes herhappy.

Never call her "intense" or "needy." WE JUST LOVE ATTENTION!

She wears her feelings close to her chest because she doesn't want to get hurt. She will reveal them to you when she's ready and not a moment before. Don't push her to speak her mind when she's not in the right mindset. She will let it out when she feels like you will get her with no judgment.

 Don't doubt her commitment, even if takes time for her to warm up.

It can take time for a Libra woman to get to that point where she's self-sacrificial in a relationship. You must prove your love to her before she can open up wholeheartedly.

She also needs to feel safe in order to open up. Once she feels like you are 100% committed to her, she will fly to the moon for you. I don't know if Neil Armstrong was a Libra, but you get the point.

She needs to see you love her — with actions, not words.

So if you love a Libra woman, remember to appreciate and validate her feelings, let her have alone time to decompress, and always, always, ALWAYS show her you love her with your actions.

1. A Libra woman is a hopeless romantic.

The Libra woman may come off guarded, but she's got big dreams deep down. A Libra has lived through her share of romantic disappointments -- just like everyone else -- but she doesn't let them stop her from believing in a fairytale ending.

She does run the risk of having unrealistic expectations, which is something she must learn to manage. Don't worry, though. Her expectations won't scare you away, because she isn't big on flaunting her feelings. You'll have to crack her open to get the details.

2. A Libra woman is intuitive.

She has a deep understanding of the ways of the world, and her maturity is both an asset and a liability.

A Libra tends to get lost in her own head, which can make her miss out on what's happening right in front of her. At the same time, she knows how to reach out to every kind of person.

Empathetic in nature, she will always be able to relate to your hardships. This makes her nurturing in love. She won't give up on you until you tell her exactly what's on your mind.

3. A Libra woman is balanced.

She always listens to every part of the equation, weighing each opinion equally before making a well-informed decision.

Seldom playing the role of mediator, she doesn't gravitate toward conflict, but she does know how to settle a score if she finds herself in an argument.

Not only does the Libra woman try her hard to keep balance in her loved ones' lives, but she also craves stability in her own.

This isn't to say that she always knows how to choose between head and heart -- she doesn't -- but she'll try to do what's best by listening to both.

4. A Libra woman knows how to turn on the charm.

When it comes to love, Libras are old-fashioned. They court others, and they love to be courted. Anything less simply will not do.

Her best friends aren't allowed to fall short of being loyal. And if you're lucky enough to be her date, be sure to have red roses and dinner ready.

She'll always be on her best behavior, and she expects the same from you. As long as you have good intentions, you're in the clear.

At the end of the day, a Libra woman won't care about how much that bottle of champagne cost. She'll be more concerned with how much thought you put into it.

5. A Libra woman is selfless.

She always puts the needs of others before her own. From being there for her best girlfriends to never canceling on a date, she respects everyone else's time.

Her selflessness can be destructive. Instead of taking care of herself, she spends most of her time taking care of the people she loves most.

6. A Libra woman is everyone's friend.

Never one to face a heated argument head-on, Libras shy away from aggressive confrontation. You'll never find her making enemies, as gossip is futile in the world of the Libra.

In the Libra woman's eyes, everyone's words hold value. Not wanting to tip the scale too much in one direction, the Libra woman befriends everyone, but she also keeps everyone at a distance. Sometimes, this means trouble when it comes to getting romantically close.

7. A Libra woman has a good time on the couch and on the town.

The Libra woman is attracted to liveliness and laughter, and she is her best self in the company of someone who cares about her. But you can just as easily find her curled up with a good book as you can at the bar.

It's no secret that the Libra tends to close in on herself, but she can't help it. She's a creative spirit. Libras find beauty in the simple things, and they know the importance of staying in tune with the arts.

When Libras lose touch with nature, they run the risk of losing touch with themselves.

8. A Libra woman is indecisive.

The Libra's desire to find the moral middle-ground can work against her.

The Libra woman is a perfectionist, and she is afraid that one small mistake will throw off her Zen. Even the smallest decisions can be the most daunting, so don't expect her to plan dinner.

Still, her indecision makes her a fair fighter and a solid partner. She'll never choose between friends if it means trivializing an opinion, and she'll always give a chance to the men who court her. She's realistic, but she also sees the good in every situation. she's the kindness of all

9. A Libra woman is melodramatic.

Drama is one of the Libra's greatest vices. She isn't the kind to stir up a fight, but she'll go drunk with her first taste of recklessness.

Never one to keep a tidy schedule, she finds organization to be a bore. Strap yourself in for both an emotionally and physically bumpy ride with a Libra woman.

Another hint:


Encourage your Libra to speak honestly, even if she thinks it will hurt your feelings. Honest communication can be difficult for Libras. When trying to keep things harmonious, she can bury or ignore messy feelings, like that she's angry with you or has doubts about your relationship. She doesn't want to hurt your feelings by saying something that might be unpleasant, but in the long run, keeping quiet can be even more harmful.

• Tell your Libra you value her opinion, and emphasize that the fairest thing she can do is be honest with you, even if she thinks the truth will hurt.
• Libras may seem detached from emotional situations. As an air sign, they tend to watch things from above, and try to remove themselves from messy entanglements. This doesn't mean she's unfeeling, just that she's trying to be impartial and fair by taking a step back from the situation.

While you're both seeking a connection, Libras are looking for mental compatibility and can appear detached to someone seeking a primarily emotional connection.  Libras are obsessed with harmony and not rocking the boat. 

• Being very social and flirtatious is part of a Libra's nature--try not to get angry or see it as a sign of disloyalty if your Libra wants to go out and spends lots of time with friends. Libras are actually very loyal!
• Ask your Libra for what you need--s/he is unlikely to intuit this on his own.

Try letting your Libra's friendliness and sociability work for your career. She'll be a great date for work functions--your boss, your coworkers, your clients, everyone will love your charismatic libra

Libra's need to be complimented and like constant validation