Libra and Proud

If King Solomon were a Queen, he would have been a Libran woman. The Libran woman embodies fairness, justice, and balance. She is represented by the scales, ideally weighted, flawless and complete. Librans are sociable and have a gift for communication. She is charismatic and captivating, drawing people to her naturally and easily. 

The very epitome of yin and yang, Libran women are a fascinating mix of rationale logic and erratic emotion, shooting holes in your flawed opinions then making up for winning the argument with her charm. However she is always open to reason and common sense and will good-naturedly admit her mistakes if you can logically talk her onto your side. 

Libra is a sign ruled by Venus, and Libran women seek harmonizing partnerships. In love, Libras seek equilibrium, the perfect lover who will shower her with paper hearts and fresh flowers. She takes pleasure in being loved, and will be utterly devoted to her chosen one. Although Libras may seem cool, calm and collected, they can be very playful and romantic when they relax. Libran women do not play games when they fall in love. They are scrupulously impartial and sometimes painfully honest. No mind games here please, it's simply not fair. 

Libra women and their all-seeing, all-encompassing views establish strong relationships with their lovers because in arguments, they will always try to see the other party's point of view. Her rationality and cool logic often mean that hot-tempered arguments peter out into quiet talks and meek retractions instead. She oscillates between independent and subservient, depending on what is deemed correct at the time. Librans want a partner who can provide them with advice and support, and they seek a matched relationship that is harmonious and steady. Her most compatible partners are the Aquarius , Virgo and Gemini signs. 

If libra's like you;

They’ll usually be really sweet and compliment you on things they’ve been noticing about you, during their observations. If they like you, they like you! They will be honest! They will show it, and lucky you, you will get 100% support from her

Make it known to Libra that you do like them but also make them work for it. They’ll go all the way, if they really do like you. Once committed Libras are very loyal; but until committed they can stay in indecision for some time. Relationship Label is important to seal Libra Woman!

You may have to stay friends and be prepared to wait. If Libra is interested, their eye contact will be good, and they will have lots of ideas and be a bright spark with lots of things to say. If they are not interested they will be very passive.

Libras are friendly/flirtatious with everyone.

Being that they’re naturally curious, they will show interest in you by digging into your personal life. If Libra is focused on getting to know you on a personal and even deep level they like you. 

As they are so pure, you may see it in their eyes, they wouldn’t be able to hide it.

Show them interest one day, and than be completely indifferent the next day. You wanna know why? Because Libras very rarely are challenged, therefore they’ll be completely intrigued.  Make sure you keep a Libra hanging on your every word.

Dont push them away! They need to be secure! 

Libra and sex

Slow, sophisticated and seductive, she makes love both emotionally and physically, with an emphasis on quality over quantity. Foreplay is particularly important to Libras, who tend to be very skillful at it. Don't be surprised if she's a world class kisser!

An intellectual like her other Air sisters, the Libra woman treats sex as a mental exercise, involving a lots of feelings. Her approach in the bedroom is to consider what her own needs, as well as her lover's are, then go about providing. This translates into a desire to please and Librans love seduction and foreplay, with plenty of sexy pillow talking leading the way into the main event. A gifted and attractive bedroom partner, a Libran woman appreciates the same treatment that she is dishing out, and will work towards achieving physical perfection in the bedroom with her lucky lover. Trust me, on this matter, you are lucky to love a libra 

Handling broken heart

One common quirk of Libra women is that of getting depressed easily. Partly this is because they genuinely feel the world should always be fair and beautiful, and the reality of course is that sometimes it just isn't. What others shrug off in this area a Libra sometimes just can't accept. This broken-hearted approach to life can be both endearing, or off-putting, depending on your viewpoint. It does create a unique and powerful counter point to their otherwise passionate approach to life for those who appreciate contrast and complexity in a partner.

What's it like dating a Libra woman?

Libra women often take relationships very seriously. They all very loyal.
Given a choice they really don't like to be single for long. 

This together with her obsession with fairness, desire for compromise, and distaste for conflict can make Libra women amazingly stay in unhappy relationships long after others might have thrown in the towel.

How loyal are Libra women?

Libras are typically amongst the most loyal signs. It's very common for them to refuse to acknowledge the bad parts of a relationship, while always highlighting the good.

Libra in LOVE

Often the largest indicator is a desire to share romantic (or passionate!) ideas and topics with you. They are very natural lovers and it may seem random at the time, however they typical reserve intimate conversation for people they are interested in. If it happens regularly then it's a very good sign they are interested.

Libra women are also very big on teamwork and fairness. They want a partner, and not a puppy or a master. Conversation is more important to them than most other signs. If they regularly seek you out for one on one conversations then it's also a good indicator. Typically they don't have a problem complimenting you on anything they like about you, and a regular flow of compliments is another good indicator. 

How to keep a Libra woman?

Being attractive, classy and sophisticated is a good starting point! Amongst other things you should be very well dressed and groomed, and most importantly should fit into her existing social circle. 

She values the opinion of her friends, and the area of love is no exception to this.

Impress her friends and you will find it much easier to win her. The often you make a connection to her, maybe simply regularly text hello, the more you get her heart. communication is the key!

While she likes a man who stands up to her she won't readily admit it or appreciate it too early in the relationship. How he does so is far more important - his fairness, compromise and harmony will be under her microscope from day one. Similarly, Libra women typically don't like to date slobs so if your house is always trashed it's better not to let her find out!

Do Libra women cheat?

Generally they don't. But, this is the type of question that often gets asked or answered whenever astrology is discussed. 

You Are Lucky To Have A Girl Who Sticks By Your Side Through Anything

She looks at you like the best thing that has ever happened to her even when you are acting like a complete asshole.

and even though there are times she swears to herself she is not going to deal with you for any longer — she still texts you back seconds after you finally decide to reply. 

When you cancel plans, she tries to schedule a raincheck. She wants to find another day that you are free so she can see you even though the smartest thing to do would be saying screw you and cutting you out of her world for good.

 She hopes she will be the girl you choose to go home with at night.

There have been times when you disappointed her. Times when you insulted her. Times when you proved you weren’t ranking her high on your list of priorities. Despite all that, she keeps giving you second chance after second chance. She lets you get away with anything.

Every time you ignore her, she comes up with an excuse for you.

You treat her like a backup plan, you send her mixed signals, and she still sticks around because she cares about you that much. She wants a serious relationship with you. She wants you and only you. She cannot stand the thought of being with anybody else.

You don’t deserve a girl like her. You don’t deserve someone who stays loyal while you are refusing to commit. You don’t deserve someone who will sacrifice her happiness for you. You don’t deserve someone who cries herself to sleep over you and then runs back into your arms in the morning anyway.

More importantly, she doesn’t deserve someone like you. She doesn’t deserve to deal with your bullshit for any longer.

She deserves someone who never makes her wait. Someone who says what he means. Someone who knows how lucky he is to have her and never lets a day go by without reminding her she is loved.

She deserves someone who puts an equal amount of effort into the relationship.

She deserves someone who appreciates how hard she loves. Someone who gives her what you never could.

You would have been lucky to have her, but that’s too bad, because you have already proven you are not worthy of her. 

ANXIETY - Because Deep Breathing And Therapy Don’t Always Work.

I wish I could tell you about the magical cure I’ve found for anxiety. I wish I could tell you that therapy or deep breathing or retraining my brain to think positive have taken away my fears completely — but that would be a lie.

The ugly truth is that I deal with anxiety by creating an escape plan for myself. Whenever I walk into a room, I glance around in search of the exit. Where is the bathroom? Where is the front door? How far away is my car parked? The less trapped I feel, the more comfortable I become.

Sometimes, for me, running away is the answer.

I deal with anxiety by having lies lined up in the back of my mind. My mother just texted me and she needs me to come home immediately. My Crush just read the text without replying me, maybe i annoyed him?, I have a test early tomorrow morning. My neighbor needs me to babysit for her

I have a playlist of songs that make me feel more active, more alert, more alive. I will blast them in the car on my way to a party to get myself in a better mood. I will lose myself in the lyrics so that by the time I reach my destination, I feel less stressed.

I deal with my anxiety by practicing what I’m going to say ahead of time. I will talk to myself in the car. 

I deal with my anxiety by dressing nice when I know I’m going to be surrounded by strangers in an uncomfortable situation. When I feel confident about the way I look on the outside, it’s a little easier for me to stand up straighter and feel like I belong. It sounds shallow, but it’s what works for me.

i deal with my anxiety by sleeping on my couch everynight, with TV on but i dont even watch it.

I will keep moving forward, even when I feel like I am eternally stuck in the same place.

YOU DON’T HAVE TO LABEL EVERY RELATIONSHIP

Names, titles, and labels, are funny things. Sometimes all we want is to show someone off as our boyfriend or girlfriend just to make people jealous.

I’m simple though. As long as I have you and I know that you’re not going anywhere, I don’t desperately need to prove to anyone else what we are. 

You make me feel safe. and that what i want right now. not all the time, just once in a while when we are together. i dont asked you to give your full attention to me, just sometimes, knowing that i am the only one you treat like this is enough. 

because i have been strong sooo long, i am strong, i know i do. but with you, i can feel i am small, i can feel like weak, and somehow, it doesn't feel so bad at all in this time of my life.

I couldn’t care less what our label is, I want to be with you because of the person you are. I don’t need to call you "my boyfriend" just to tell you how I feel about you. The only two people in this are you and me, so who cares what anyone else thinks.

What’s most important is what we think.

I’ve been the girl who fought for the title before, and once I had it, I didn’t know what to do with it because it didn’t mean anything anymore. All it was was just a single word, it didn’t actually change my life like I thought it would.  everything good seems disappear when you put label on it. 

We’re so different though. We have more going for us than just some superficial label. That’s why I don’t need it to define you and I.

Before we define us, before people justify us... before every of the label, I want to know every piece of you. I want to know what makes you happy, pissed off, and sad. I want to know what your favorite meal is, or your favorite movie and game. And I want to know your secrets if you feel like sharing them too.

At the end of the day, a label is just that. A label. It’s a bunch of words that have serious meaning behind it or it doesn’t.

honestly it doesn’t matter to me anymore. What matters more is simply knowing you’re there.  

That’s really why I don’t need it to define us, we’ve become bigger than a silly name. 

i am safe with you. i can be my self. i can CHILL and not overthink, and you will not Judge me for my past, and my mistakes... thats all i need to know. i need to know that you always be honest, for the good things or the shitty things. and if there is time i am no longer safe with you, if there is any chance you lost you heartbeat for anyone elses, i will not compete, if you would have want to walk out of my life, i will giving you the exit.

i have been broken so many times and its hard to me to define something, label just makes everything complicated, and at the end, when people leave, it will create more scars.

For You

Putting up walls around your heart isn’t something that happens overnight. It happens after you give up parts of yourself and get hurt one too many times.  

Once that wall goes up, it’s hard to trust or let anyone in past it.

I’ve been there too, so I understand the feeling.

You say that every time you let down those walls and start to truly get close to someone, they leave. 

Every time you start to develop deeper feelings and let yourself fall for someone, they let you down. You're tired of expressing those feelings and setting yourself up for heartbreak.

It happens around the same point in each of your relationships.

It’s all you’ve known, so why would you expect anything less from me?  

You’re scared that if you let go of all caution, I’m going to disappoint you and leave just like everyone else.

You keep waiting for us to fall apart, so you keep a piece of yourself hidden.  You know that if you hold back and don’t give up too much of your heart, it will hurt less down the road.

The less you give, the less you have to lose.

Well normally that would be true. 

I want to show you that I’m different, but I don’t know how.  It’s so hard to compete with that kind of preconceived notion. But that doesn’t mean I’m not going to try.

How do I prove to you that I’m here to stay? 

How do I show you that my feelings are real, and that I’m not just going to walk away if things get a little hard?

I can say the words a thousand times, but I’m sure you’ve heard it all before.  All I can really do is wait patiently and remind you every single day until you can truly believe it for yourself.

I’m in this for the long haul. 

I know it’s still early, but I can envision a future with you.  I can see the white dress, our house, and a life spent together with you.

As long as you’ll have me, I’m yours. I’m not going anywhere. I’m yours completely and indefinitely.

In other words, you’re stuck with me.

A relationship is something you have to choose and fight for every day, and that’s what I plan to do. I know it won't be perfect. I might get upset or frustrated sometimes, but I also know that I'll never give up.

When I tell you I love you, what I'm really saying is that I am choosing to love and trust you every day. I'm choosing you above all else because you are that important to me.

I hope to show you someday that it's safe to fully let your guard down with me. 

However long it takes for that to happen, I’ll be here. 

Why She Settled For Something Casual With You When She Secretly Wanted Something Real.

She settled for something casual with you, even though she secretly wanted a serious relationship, because she wanted to be around you. She wanted more of your time. She thought that if you got to know her better, if you learned more about her, then you might change your mind about her. You might decide that you’re ready for a real relationship after all. You might ask her to be your girlfriend. Even though you already made it clear you weren’t interested in committing, she kept telling herself there was a chance you would change your mind once you fell for her.

She settled for something casual with you, even though she secretly wanted a serious relationship, because she enjoyed her nights alone with you. She enjoyed getting intimate with you. She just didn’t enjoy the part that came after. The part when you would leave. The part when you would take forever to text back. The part when she would see you flirting with other girls. The part when she realized you would never love her the way she loved you.

She settled for something casual with you, even though she secretly wanted a serious relationship, because she didn’t want to get greedy. She kept telling herself that being your friend was enough, kissing you was enough, climbing into bed with you was enough. She fooled herself into believing that having any kind of relationship with you was better than losing you completely. She thought that it would hurt less to be your booty call, your backup plan, than to be some stranger you used to text.

She settled for something casual with you, even though she secretly wanted a serious relationship, because she wanted to impress you. She wanted to look like a cool girl. A girl you could imagine keeping around. She was willing to give up what she wanted in order to give you what you wanted, because at the time, she cared more about your feelings than her own.

She settled for something casual with you, even though she secretly wanted a serious relationship, because she couldn’t see her worth back then. She didn’t think anyone would ever want to be her official boyfriend. She thought that an almost relationship or friend with benefits was the best she was ever going to get. She has fallen for so many boys who only wanted her for one thing, which made her believe it was her fault. It made her believe she wasn’t girlfriend material. She didn’t realize that you wanted to stay single for your own reasons. That it had nothing to do with her.

She settled for something casual with you, even though she secretly wanted a serious relationship, because she really fucking liked you. She liked talking to you. She liked looking at you. She liked having you around. She lowered her standards for you, because she couldn’t imagine walking away from you. Because, to her, you were worth the pain. The disappointment. The heartache.

But now, she knows better than that. She knows what she deserves. She knows no one is worth settling for, not even you. 

The perfect Poems about anxiety and depression...

Quotes that So True as said by a libra..

libra is stubborn in love

when set an eye for one person., it will be one person only until they feel the rejection is too far for them to bare

libra is the best lovers because she/he will put you first

whatever you want her/him to be, she will be, so its acctually create the perfect/obey/dream partner

bad thing is, with all they give, the crave attention in return. 

but if you know them, you know that you dont have to give all your time

just a daily communication,

if you were busy,  let them know what you doing, they will not disturb you and giving you all the time in the world

they just want to feel involved by you letting them know that you are busy.

9 Things You Need To Know Before You Date A Libra Woman

From Elite Daily

https://www.elitedaily.com/life/dating-libra-woman/1208862

Fair. Loyal. Intellectual. Creative.

Have I piqued your interest yet? I'm here to tell you that there's nothing sexier than a Libra woman.

The Libra's sign is the scale, which symbolizes her thirst for justice in life and love. She is ruled by Venus, the planet of love and beauty: two things she never stops chasing.

An air sign, the Libra woman values over all else her ability to connect emotionally. And, as it turns out, she is most compatible with someone just like her: the Libra man.

Libras seek peace and harmony in every area of their lives. They may be innately attracted to drama, but they're intuitive enough to know exactly when they have to trim the excess fat.

The Libra is a “people person,” but she can also be painfully shy.

She appreciates the finer things in life, but she doesn't always need glitz and glam. She finds a poetry reading just as enlightening as the finest wine or a fancy restaurant.

Libra women love to be loved, but they want someone who will be patient with them when it comes to opening up. With every new relationship, it can be hard for her to truly know what she wants and be able to vocalize that, but rest assured, once a Libra woman loves you, she definitely shows it.

In return, all she asks is for someone to love her as much as she loves them. Here's what you need you to know about how to love a Libra woman for EVERYTHING she is.

The charismatic Libra woman can charm even the grumpiest man and make anyone crack a smile.

With such an amazing personality and optimistic outlook on life, it might seem hard to imagine a woman like this getting angry (like fiery, better-get-out-of-the-way angry), but trust me: A Libra woman can, and will, hold her own in an argument.

she's so empathic that she cries when you're crying, just because she feels emotions so strongly. When a Libra is in a relationship, she wants to know (first and foremost) that her feelings are cherished and respected

Libra women swallow their feelings in a sacrificial way to please others and make sure everyone around them is happy. This isn't necessarily because she is a push-over or worried about other people's happiness over her own, but rather because simply making others happy makes herhappy.

Never call her "intense" or "needy." WE JUST LOVE ATTENTION!

She wears her feelings close to her chest because she doesn't want to get hurt. She will reveal them to you when she's ready and not a moment before. Don't push her to speak her mind when she's not in the right mindset. She will let it out when she feels like you will get her with no judgment.

 Don't doubt her commitment, even if takes time for her to warm up.

It can take time for a Libra woman to get to that point where she's self-sacrificial in a relationship. You must prove your love to her before she can open up wholeheartedly.

She also needs to feel safe in order to open up. Once she feels like you are 100% committed to her, she will fly to the moon for you. I don't know if Neil Armstrong was a Libra, but you get the point.

She needs to see you love her — with actions, not words.

So if you love a Libra woman, remember to appreciate and validate her feelings, let her have alone time to decompress, and always, always, ALWAYS show her you love her with your actions.

1. A Libra woman is a hopeless romantic.

The Libra woman may come off guarded, but she's got big dreams deep down. A Libra has lived through her share of romantic disappointments -- just like everyone else -- but she doesn't let them stop her from believing in a fairytale ending.

She does run the risk of having unrealistic expectations, which is something she must learn to manage. Don't worry, though. Her expectations won't scare you away, because she isn't big on flaunting her feelings. You'll have to crack her open to get the details.

2. A Libra woman is intuitive.

She has a deep understanding of the ways of the world, and her maturity is both an asset and a liability.

A Libra tends to get lost in her own head, which can make her miss out on what's happening right in front of her. At the same time, she knows how to reach out to every kind of person.

Empathetic in nature, she will always be able to relate to your hardships. This makes her nurturing in love. She won't give up on you until you tell her exactly what's on your mind.

3. A Libra woman is balanced.

She always listens to every part of the equation, weighing each opinion equally before making a well-informed decision.

Seldom playing the role of mediator, she doesn't gravitate toward conflict, but she does know how to settle a score if she finds herself in an argument.

Not only does the Libra woman try her hard to keep balance in her loved ones' lives, but she also craves stability in her own.

This isn't to say that she always knows how to choose between head and heart -- she doesn't -- but she'll try to do what's best by listening to both.

4. A Libra woman knows how to turn on the charm.

When it comes to love, Libras are old-fashioned. They court others, and they love to be courted. Anything less simply will not do.

Her best friends aren't allowed to fall short of being loyal. And if you're lucky enough to be her date, be sure to have red roses and dinner ready.

She'll always be on her best behavior, and she expects the same from you. As long as you have good intentions, you're in the clear.

At the end of the day, a Libra woman won't care about how much that bottle of champagne cost. She'll be more concerned with how much thought you put into it.

5. A Libra woman is selfless.

She always puts the needs of others before her own. From being there for her best girlfriends to never canceling on a date, she respects everyone else's time.

Her selflessness can be destructive. Instead of taking care of herself, she spends most of her time taking care of the people she loves most.

6. A Libra woman is everyone's friend.

Never one to face a heated argument head-on, Libras shy away from aggressive confrontation. You'll never find her making enemies, as gossip is futile in the world of the Libra.

In the Libra woman's eyes, everyone's words hold value. Not wanting to tip the scale too much in one direction, the Libra woman befriends everyone, but she also keeps everyone at a distance. Sometimes, this means trouble when it comes to getting romantically close.

7. A Libra woman has a good time on the couch and on the town.

The Libra woman is attracted to liveliness and laughter, and she is her best self in the company of someone who cares about her. But you can just as easily find her curled up with a good book as you can at the bar.

It's no secret that the Libra tends to close in on herself, but she can't help it. She's a creative spirit. Libras find beauty in the simple things, and they know the importance of staying in tune with the arts.

When Libras lose touch with nature, they run the risk of losing touch with themselves.

8. A Libra woman is indecisive.

The Libra's desire to find the moral middle-ground can work against her.

The Libra woman is a perfectionist, and she is afraid that one small mistake will throw off her Zen. Even the smallest decisions can be the most daunting, so don't expect her to plan dinner.

Still, her indecision makes her a fair fighter and a solid partner. She'll never choose between friends if it means trivializing an opinion, and she'll always give a chance to the men who court her. She's realistic, but she also sees the good in every situation. she's the kindness of all

9. A Libra woman is melodramatic.

Drama is one of the Libra's greatest vices. She isn't the kind to stir up a fight, but she'll go drunk with her first taste of recklessness.

Never one to keep a tidy schedule, she finds organization to be a bore. Strap yourself in for both an emotionally and physically bumpy ride with a Libra woman.

Another hint:


Encourage your Libra to speak honestly, even if she thinks it will hurt your feelings. Honest communication can be difficult for Libras. When trying to keep things harmonious, she can bury or ignore messy feelings, like that she's angry with you or has doubts about your relationship. She doesn't want to hurt your feelings by saying something that might be unpleasant, but in the long run, keeping quiet can be even more harmful.

• Tell your Libra you value her opinion, and emphasize that the fairest thing she can do is be honest with you, even if she thinks the truth will hurt.
• Libras may seem detached from emotional situations. As an air sign, they tend to watch things from above, and try to remove themselves from messy entanglements. This doesn't mean she's unfeeling, just that she's trying to be impartial and fair by taking a step back from the situation.

While you're both seeking a connection, Libras are looking for mental compatibility and can appear detached to someone seeking a primarily emotional connection.  Libras are obsessed with harmony and not rocking the boat. 

• Being very social and flirtatious is part of a Libra's nature--try not to get angry or see it as a sign of disloyalty if your Libra wants to go out and spends lots of time with friends. Libras are actually very loyal!
• Ask your Libra for what you need--s/he is unlikely to intuit this on his own.

Try letting your Libra's friendliness and sociability work for your career. She'll be a great date for work functions--your boss, your coworkers, your clients, everyone will love your charismatic libra

Libra's need to be complimented and like constant validation