Why you buy real life Animals for easter??

SOURCES: PETA

I never have this experiences since i was raise in indonesia and quite religious family. Easter for my mom always base on the Bible value when we go to church and having a family dinner.

I am not a super religious person anymore.

But i prefer this tradition over buying real life rabbits 🐇  or duck 🦆 as a gift

Yes PEOPLE, some f Human buying Real

life RABBITS and DUCK as EASTER DECORATION OR GIFT!

i know easter is passed already but i just read about this now and it is pissed me off

Every year, breeders and bunny mills churn out irresistible baby rabbits and other small animals for people to put into Easter baskets on impulse. And every year, people realize after Easter that animals are a ton of work, which the breeders often fail to mention in the first place. 

For example, rabbits chew nonstop (their teeth never stop growing), and they have special dietary needs (think less lettuce, more hay). They require constant mental stimulation and space to run around in, and they get depressed when confined to a cage.

For this reason, animals given as Easter gifts are often discarded. They’re dumped at an animal shelter, left alone in a cage outside, or simply turned loose in the wild—where they don’t stand a chance against starvation, harsh weather, and predators. 

—animals are a commitment, not an impulse holiday purchase-and that animals should be adopted, never bought from pet stores or breeders.

Please... STOP THIS NONESENSE ALREADY!!

Enjoy ONE DIRECTION concert - with alexa!!

We all know that Alexandria  is crazy about this english boyband.. And in love with one of its member.. Harry styles.

So when we heard they will come to jakarta for ON THE ROAD AGAIN TOUR 2015 we just bought the ticket since november last year!!

We are so exciting!!

And alexa is the YOUNGEST girl in this arena!! 

We watch from the West VIP AREA.

A bit disapointed because the venue was not clear (for what theh said VIP) and there is no big LCD so we almost see nothing! While tribune(the cheap ticket) , yet they are so far from the stage but there's the BIG LCD and they can see the boys clearly!! 

Lucky! After the toilet break, we out and talk to the guard and they let us go in to the HOT SEAT! Rather they dont realize that we are coming from west vip, or they let us because alexa is a small cute girl!! Hahaha ! Well we sit in Super VVIP! And its awesome! 

We can see clear! 

We enjoyed the night! The boys awesome even thou its not complete because Zayn is not coming (due to the issues that he have hard time and stress, or he's find out cheating and having fight with his fiancee and the news that he's resign (yes! He's out) from one direction.. This one is To bad because i think he have the most wonderful voice of all the boys (its true! Even if i adore louis more! Lol))

You are my Happy pills :)

😘😘😘😘

You make me happy..

Quite a party! cheers

"Cheers (Drink To That)"

Cheers to the freakin' weekend

I drink to that, yeah yeah

Oh let the Jameson sink in

I drink to that, yeah yeah

Don't let the bastards get ya down

Turn it around with another round

There's a party at the bar everybody put your glasses up and I drink to that

I drink to that.

Life's too short to be sittin' round miserable

People gon' talk whether you doing bad or good, yeah

Got a drink on my mind and my mind on my money, yeah

Looking so bomb, gonna find me a honey

Got my Ray-Bans on and I'm feelin' hella cool tonight, yeah

Everybody's vibin' so don't nobody start a fight, yeah-ah-ah-ah

Cheers to the freakin' weekend

I drink to that, yeah yeah

Oh, let the Jameson sink in

I drink to that, yeah yeah

Don't let the bastards get ya down

Turn it around with another round

There's a party at the bar everybody put your glasses up and I drink to that

I drink to that.

'Bout to hop on the bar, put it all on my card tonight, yeah.

Might be mad in the morning but you know we goin' hard tonight

It's getting coyote ugly up in here, no tyra

It's only up from here, no downward spiral

Got my Ray-Bans on and I'm feelin' hella cool tonight, yeah

Everybody's vibin' so don't nobody start a fight, yeah

Cheers to the freakin' weekend

I drink to that, yeah yeah

Oh let the Jameson sink in

I drink to that, yeah yeah

Don't let the bastards get ya down

Turn it around with another round

There's a party at the bar everybody put your glasses up and I drink to that

I drink to that.

Cheers to the freakin weekend

I drink to that, yeah yeah

Oh let the Jameson sink in

I drink to that, yeah yeah

Don't let the bastards get ya down

Turn it around with another round

There's a party at the bar everybody put your glasses up and I drink to that

When it comes to label.. Label.. Label..

Okay so you guys are dating for such a long or maybe short time.. Who cares.. You feel the connection, you move forward.. And see where it goes.
As a couple you both have to decided to jump to this situation. But are you ready enough?
When it comes to label in your relationship.. Ask yourself, do you want to be with him/her, or do you just want to be with someone.
At this stage, it's important to check yourself and make sure that you want the label for the right reasons such a connection and you are happy being with them.

A man and women wants to feel adored and appreciated for who he is. It is an amazing feeling for someone when a a guy/girl she/he's into sees who they truly is and wants to be with them.

"It's important for someone to feel approval and non a rejection in a relationship that can cause insecurities. Once insecurities there.. Its an toxic for a relationship"

On the other hand, it is utterly unsettling to a someone when the girl/guy they seeing just wants a boyfriend/girlfriend 'label' and she/he knows that she/he just "filling a slot" that could easily go to any other person.

A lot of people get so caught up in the fantasy of "having a Partner", that they fail to 'really see' the person they're really dating... all they see is the "chance to not die alone".

When someone feels that you appreciate how unique they are and what they themself can contribute to your life, they won't hesitate to
make it official.. They won't push you back or make you feel unwanted.

But sometimes... You feel that you already put quite an effort and If you're doing it right and they still won't put a label on it,
"use your walking power" and leave the situation that make you feel unwanted or insecure.

If they care for you at all, they won't let you go.


The point is.. Its not about the label. Its how your partner treat you. Label is just a label. The real feel
And how you treat it.. Is the most important!

NEXT STEP Appreciate,

acknowledge and respect your partner for who they are.
People are absolutely starved for respect and appreciation. At
the end of the day, all they really wants is to make you happy and to know that you see and appreciate them for who they are...that you see the hidden sides of them that no one
else gets to see, that you know their inner self and love and appreciate who they are.

An ideal woman to a man is a woman who is thoroughly happy with him. You can't fake your appreciation though; it has to be sincere and genuine.

When he does something nice for you, be it something big or small, like bake a cake or doing your hobby to skating together, show him that you noticed and that you appreciate it. The more specific you are with your compliments and acknowledgments, the better.

Show your happily to be with your partner because the best feeling in the world is feeling wanted and beloved for the way you are.

you have to see him and accept your partner without an angle or agenda. And the way you truly see him or the way he truly sees you for who you are is the things that makes a relationship going great.

If you wont put effort on it.. You will always ended up wasting your time in such an effortless relationship.

You are the one who have control and keys to make it works!

CARNIVORE TO VEGAN

Funny enough i was carnivore, grew up without VEGGIES or almost never eat any Vegetables. I only knew Corn and Spinach and for 25 years the ONLY FRUIT i ever ate WAS APPLE. 

4 years ago, i start to notice about world problem, starting with Palm Oil trouble that happen in my country. Destroying RAIN FOREST, and KILL ORANGUTAN! I got angry! And i got greedy of knowledge of what can i do to help the earth! 

STARTED by make all my presentation in University about world problem, - the blood diamonds- the PALM OIL (Say NO to palm oil by anthonsya sounti, you can still find in in Pretzy i think), and what we can do to stop the FUR in FASHION industry #FASHIONFORGOOD 😊🙏🏻, how I disagree with HERMES that skin the CROCODILE ALIVE to make handbags! And so on. 

A LOTS of my friends find my presentation to “GRAPHIC”, or Disgusting to show.

But if i dont take action to show them, WHO WILL? 

My love of Animals getting stronger when i lost my dog. And its breaking my heart and every of my bones.

Two years ago i started to eat many kind of veggies and try new fruits like strawberries and banana, oranges and other fruits, but still not stop eating meat yet. 

8 months ago, end of Fall, i found two baby kitten abandoned in the garden of my apartment building, cold, and freezing from rain and windy weather. They practically died a moment in there and i SAVED them. Me. This CLUMSY GIRL that think she’s destroy everything she touches, save kittens life.

I took them home. 

I watched a Video from my Favorite BEAUTY GURU, She turned Vegan years ago, and the video is about “LOVE ONE LOVES ALL” and i know i love animal (more then People I think)😅 and i gotta do something. This point i don’t complete stop eating meat, but i reduce. As person who never eat veggies before, i was kinda struggle to swallow and not get used to the taste! Hey! Don’t judge! I was really trying here. 😁

5 months ago i watched “Before the Flood” and its open my eyes and i started to watch a lot of Documentaries. 

I completely reduce my meat intake at this point. But i was with a guy who love Burger and cooking Chicken. So i ate meat only if he was around. I don’t declare my self as Vegetarian or so and I dont tell anyone i reduce my meat consumption or so. I wasn’t that committed at this point. I just tried my best.

Some in times ago He decided he doesn’t want to be around anymore. So in order to forget my misery, i need to got busy with my free time, so, i volunteer in farm and dogs shelter, and it’s completely changing my life... 

I meet a wonderful person, my FIRST (GIRL) FRIEND in amsterdam, her name is ALPHA and she have wonderful dogs called Magnus! I love them both! She’s vegan and she take me to wonderful vegan restaurant, and showed me that VEGAN can be YUMMY too. No more struggle of eating veggies. Even RAW FOOD TASTE AMAZING!  To be fair, last weekend is the first time i ate Grapes. And it was good :).

sometimes things that makes me struggle is people. i am still struggles, and really can’t stand my friends start to judge me for being a “followers”. But then.... This is my choices. And i am happy with it.

there is NO UNCONDITIONAL LOVE!

Okay.. You might love katty perry song's "unconditionally"

As a person in relationship. When its all get hard, we often said "how could he/she do that?  He's supposed to love me unconditionally."

OK, full stop.

First off, whenever I hear that someone is supposed to do anything in a relationship, an alarm goes off in my head.

The phrase "supposed to" is basically the same as saying the
word "should": it's a poisonous mindset word for relationships.

It has a tone of blaming, shaming and coercing the other person to do what you want them to do... or else.

More importantly, when I heard She/he say that the partner supposed to "love unconditionally," I thought to myself, "Wait... do You seriously think that?"

Granted, I am very precise in the way I say things and how I use language.  So let's make clear what it means to do something "unconditionally"...

To do something unconditionally means that you do it without any criteria, conditions or expectations.

In other words, if man said thay, means he was saying that he believed that she's supposed to "love him" no matter what he does or doesn't do, how he acts, etc.

He's essentially saying,

 "Welp, my job is done.  I'm in a relationship, she loves me, so I don't have to do anything... She will just love me forever and it doesn't matter if I stop doing the things that I used to do at
the beginning of the relationship, please her in the ways I used to please her or act like the guy she fell in love with.. No more goodmorning.. No need impression."

Sadly, our culture believes that!! You think once you have a relationship, you can kick back and life somehow gets easier.  You think You can get lazy and not worry about your relationship since that area is handled.

(And I'm not talking about just Man, I'm talking about everyone: men and women.)

Sample case of woman Lazyness:

My buddy got married a couple years ago and now has a son.  His wife has gained about "50 pounds" since when they first started dating. (Due to selfcare lazyness)

My buddy does love his wife, but he reluctantly told me that he no longer feels any attraction to his wife and is ashamed that he finds himself resorting to porn and checking out other women.


Now before I continue with the story, I know a lot of women are reading this and thinking This sounding like a total jerk for daring to bring up a woman's weight gain, let alone
suggesting that love has conditions.

I don't want to upset you.  I don't want to hurt your feelings.  And no, I don't believe that relationship success falls 100% on the woman or Man.

All I know is that if you want success, then you deserve to know what will bring you success - someone needs to tell you the truth, even if it's unsettling sometimes.

Back to the story about my friend and his wife...

At one point, they were having dessert at a friend's house and she got up for a second piece of cake.  My buddy quietly said to her, "Babe... you really shouldn't be eating two pieces of cake."
She smiled at him, looked him right in the eyes as she shoveled a delicious forkful of chocolate cake into her mouth and said, "I know... but it's OK baby... you love me."

As you could imagine, my buddy feels trapped in the relationship, helpless and hopeless - he loves his wife and doesn't want to leave her, but any time he tries to guide her to being the girl she used to be (the girl he fell in love with) she feel it's unnecessary, since he's supposed to love her unconditionally. Lol.

Here's my point:  Relationships DO have conditions.  Love might not, but relationship and attraction does.

Look, you selected each other basedc on a criteria.  There were conditions.

I can't imagine that either you or your man just threw on a blindfold, pointed at a crowd of people and randomly chose each other.

You met each other's conditions for a relationship partner and you expected that you would both continue to meet each others conditions.

Yes you love each other, but a relationship is more than just love.

Relationships have conditions! Biological attraction has conditions!

Hate to be the one who breaks the bad news, but it's true... the good news is there's a much better approach to relationships that will work great for you...

A much more helpful view of relationships is that you are in service of one another.  The man you are with gives to you in loving service as best he can... and you give to him in loving service as best you can too.

That's much different than our culture's attitude of,
"Welp, I'm married.  Glad that's handled - time to sit back and let a
lifetime of perfect love just effortlessly happen for me."

It sounds ridiculous when I say it outright like that, but that's the silent and deadly attitude most people have about love and relationships - like it's something you lock in and it's just handled, instead of an
ongoing constant... relationship.

I remember someone suggesting something excellent once that stuck with me

He spoke to an old man who had been married happily for 70 years or so.  And when he ask the old man his secret, the old man said,

"We just kept repeating the first 90 days of our relationship.  We never stopped 'dating' each other."

Damn! Amazing how simple is that?!

If you want the best relationship and love life possible, then...

The things that attracted you to each other at the beginning of your relationship should never stop.  The things that made you fall in love with each other should never stop.

Again, our culture has this weird idea that dating is meant to get someone on the hook and then once you've got them you can just be a slob afterwards.

And you might think that I sound jaded and cynical, but there's
a reason why most marriages end in acrimonious divorce today.

I need to say the hard truth ! someone needs to try and help.

Yes, obviously the man needs to be holding up his side of the relationship.  But every day you are in the relationship, you're choosing to be.

She or He's not forcing you.  They
doesn't have a gun to your head.  So if he's truly not servicing you in your relationship, you can leave...

But if you choose to stay with her/him... and you want the best love life and relationship possible... you need to look at a relationship as dating that person forever and being at your best, brightest, most attractive self in service of your relationship.

When you come from that place in a relationship, that's when you start seeing him/her show up in the way that you remember her/him being at the beginning too.

crazy ramdom dating idea

Funny Dates Idea ..

Cook together

Go trekking

Go camping

Order a pizza and beer, play cards game at home

Go out for a jog together

Plan a trip to an exotic resort or island

Make home singing duet videos and post it up on social networking sites

Go for midnight walks and sit by the lake if you chance upon any… spend time talking while you wait for dawn

Buy a couple of board games and spend week nights at home playing them with a glass of wine or cola, depending on your age!

Find out a basic recipe to make ice cream and try to make some at home together!

Separately go and Meet for breakfast at the next town

Drive around the city in the week hours of the morning, clicking pictures of early light

Go shopping and buy each other gifts and exchanges while dinner

Enact a scene from your favorite movie!

Go to halloween party and have a couple movie character costume..

Run around in the rain or snow (depending on the weather) and click pics

Plan a get together with couple of friends and have a theme party.

Create little couple cards and send them out to close mutual friends and relatives

Better yet, buy a telescope and reach for the stars!

Go swimming in the sea, snorkeling or surfing

Do a extreme sport together

Make no plan and randomly wake up one day and drive away…in any direction. Stop when you need a break to eat!

Re-enact your first date or the time he asked you out. This time record it!

Print all the pictures you’ve taken together and make a book collage

Spend time on the beach and build fancy sand castles

If its the winter season, build snowmen and dress them up to look like your relatives or favorite movie stars. You can even click pictures and send them to your relatives provided they are the kind who won’t take offence to that!

Be part of a charity that hosts fun events for underprivileged children, this way you’ll be doing your bit for society too!

Dress up like a movie star and go on 5 stars dinner

Book a random hotel and spend the day and night being lazy together

Host a karaoke night at your house for your boy or other way around.
Brew some beer at home together (only if you’re 21 and above)

Learn to play his/her favorite sport and challenge him/her to a match!

Buy 2 polaroid camera and spend a DATE DAY (one full day) randomly taking picture of each other.

Watch the seasons scariest movie at home on a Saturday night, with the light out!

Go to cinema and watch random movies

Go to music concert of the band/musician you both never heard before.

I MISS THIS GIRLS!

Walking with a friend in the dark is better than walking alone in the light.

Friendship is born at that moment when one man says to another: 

"What! You too? I thought that no one but myself "

 

 

last words to you is Thank you...

Yes.. You also left MARKS... I remember that in the most happiest and most painful way..

Now i found the new happiness and you will be part of my past. And for that i am thankful.
.. I always smile in a good way of smile.. The smile that u gave me.. After years .. You changes it within a days! And its feel amazing
I eat veggies! I love peas, beans, tomatoes.. I drink juice and smoothies.. And like it.. After 25 years never ever ate another fruits other than apple..
I learn HARD how to cook! lol!
I let my hair untied. After always do the ponytail... Hahaha
I care more about live.. You thought me to having a goal in my life.. To grow up and move forward.. Life doesn't stop for anybody. I need to work my hard to get with it! (In your words it "working my ass hard to get it!)
You force me to get out of my "daydream world" to ho to "adult hardworking world"

You teach me not to count to others.. Love is not always about talking.. But also wait. Makes me realize that i can live without guy next to me. I can live alone and standing with my own feet (even you thought this to me in the most painful hurting ignoring way at the time when i count on u most)

The point is.. I will not be here or in this freedom happiness situation if its not because of you
No one changes me in a good way as much as you did..
And i loved you for all the happiness and the pain that you gave me..
And now i move on!
You are past now
And im happily say that i am changes!!
I found my happy pills .. And how gland i am to say its not you! You're no longer my heroin. I have new HERO! :p.
But i'm happy with this changes! Everything changes in my life

i bleed.. yes
but i learn how to heal my self

You teach me so much..
And for that i am thankful..
goodbye.

#Breathe #moveonFOREVER

One Direction Songs Covers by Me.

Well.. I know you guys think i am too Winnie. Hahaha but yeah i am! Im in love with love and im i love with the love songs! Hahahahaha
And i love cute things! You can say.. I collecting hippopotamus doll (which is cute). I love cute quotes. And that's why i like one direction.. A bunch of cute boy?! Aaawwww... (LOL)

Well. Okay. I dont like them that way! Hahahaa.. I love their voice (yeah! You like it or not! Just admit it! They have good voice! Not only good-looking! Right?) and good song! (Well you can Like Ed-sheeran song's but can't like One Direction songs? Crazy? Ed's wrote the songs for one Direction! Hahaha see! You guys are subjective! Lol)

So i covers to You a song written by Ed, Recording and Sing by One direction. But this is my awful Sounti's version! Well, i record this with my PHONE and Karaoke application, so the quality of the song and voice was ugly. I am sorry ahahhaha. But i love the songs and the lyrics.. So hope you gonna like it too! Enjoy

I covers 2 songs
1st songs title "MORE THAN THIS" is the story about of you falling in love with someone who fallin in love (or having relationship) with someone else.  So basically its a sad song..

CLICK:

More than this covers by queensounti

And the other song is MY FAVE LYRICS and song of one Direction, also written by ed sheernan! And its so perfect. Its how to see the Perfection in Imperfection of someone that you love !!

The tittle is "Little Things"

CLICK:
Little things covers by queensounti

Well hope you Enjoy!!