Repost : LABEL in Relationships. YAY or NAY?

Okay so you guys are dating for such a long or maybe short time.. Who cares.. You feel the connection, you move forward.. And see where it goes.
As a couple you both have to decided to jump to this situation. But are you ready enough?
When it comes to label in your relationship.. Ask yourself, do you want to be with him/her, or do you just want to be with someone.
At this stage, it's important to check yourself and make sure that you want the label for the right reasons such a connection and you are happy being with them.

A man and women wants to feel adored and appreciated for who he is. It is an amazing feeling for someone when a a guy/girl she/he's into sees who they truly is and wants to be with them.

"It's important for someone to feel approval and non a rejection in a relationship that can cause insecurities. Once insecurities there.. Its an toxic for a relationship"

On the other hand, it is utterly unsettling to a someone when the girl/guy they seeing just wants a boyfriend/girlfriend 'label' and she/he knows that she/he just "filling a slot" that could easily go to any other person.

A lot of people get so caught up in the fantasy of "having a Partner", that they fail to 'really see' the person they're really dating... all they see is the "chance to not die alone".

When someone feels that you appreciate how unique they are and what they themself can contribute to your life, they won't hesitate to
make it official.. They won't push you back or make you feel unwanted.

But sometimes... You feel that you already put quite an effort and If you're doing it right and they still won't put a label on it,
"use your walking power" and leave the situation that make you feel unwanted or insecure.

If they care for you at all, they won't let you go.


The point is.. Its not about the label. Its how your partner treat you. Label is just a label. The real feel
And how you treat it.. Is the most important!

NEXT STEP Appreciate,

acknowledge and respect your partner for who they are.
People are absolutely starved for respect and appreciation. At
the end of the day, all they really wants is to make you happy and to know that you see and appreciate them for who they are...that you see the hidden sides of them that no one
else gets to see, that you know their inner self and love and appreciate who they are.

An ideal woman to a man is a woman who is thoroughly happy with him. You can't fake your appreciation though; it has to be sincere and genuine.

When he does something nice for you, be it something big or small, like bake a cake or doing your hobby to skating together, show him that you noticed and that you appreciate it. The more specific you are with your compliments and acknowledgments, the better.

Show your happily to be with your partner because the best feeling in the world is feeling wanted and beloved for the way you are.

you have to see him and accept your partner without an angle or agenda. And the way you truly see him or the way he truly sees you for who you are is the things that makes a relationship going great.

If you wont put effort on it.. You will always ended up wasting your time in such an effortless relationship.

You are the one who have control and keys to make it works!