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Things Girls Wish You Knew.. (Written by a guy! And as a women, i couldn't agree more! Thank you!)

Sources : http://www.askmen.com/top_10/dating/things-girls-wished-you-knew_10.html


I just take the best 5 According to me. But there's more! Open the link above to read complete articles!

Most Girls Don't Care About Money

For some guys (rich and poor alike) there's an assumption that girls are only interested in rich guys, and that the richer a guy is, the more interested the girls will be. Well, we won't lie: All other things being equal, there's a good chance your average girl prefers the Super-Rich Clone to the Homeless Clone. But just like you're interested in more aspects of a girl than just her bra size alone, your annual income, liquid assets, and real estate holdings (or lack thereof) don't necessarily matter to her. If you're a girl's type, she's going to be interested regardless of your dolla, dolla bills. And if she turns you down, there's a good chance it wasn't simply because she snuck a peek at your bank balance one time. Of course, if you're cheap and refuse to spend a dime on her, that's another story. It's less about the money, and more about the unspoken message that you're not worth that much to her. Now that's just common sense -- err, cents. 

You Better Introduce Them As Your Girlfriend

Let's set the stage. You're over at your girl's place. You've been going out for a few months. You're exclusive, and you each deleted your OkCupid profiles to prove it. Then her friends randomly show up, and she says, "Hi guys! This is my friend, Brad."

Hurts, doesn't it? Now you're wondering what's up. Are you too ugly? Is it something you said? Maybe you don't have enough money haven't been offering to pay for meals as often as she has? Are you in a fight? Has she downgraded you? Are you just her dirty little secret?

Well, same applies in reverse. When you're introducing her to friends, you introduce her as your girlfriend. And if you aren't 100% sure about the status of your relationship, maybe it's time to have that conversation with her -- like a real grown man. 

*My personal PS: if you want the open-relationship  from the start and treat us like girlfriend but mention us as a friend.. Well, guess what! We don't mind... Just come it clear from the start.. So we can get the back up ;). It harsh, but we want to have an exit door from broken heart ;)  

Keeping Secrets Is Cheating

When that cute girl you went to high school with added you on Facebook two months ago, you didn't tell her. Ditto when the girl liked a few of your statuses, and you liked a few of her profile pics. Ditto when you started chatting with her late one night and now you guys have regular talks. Ditto when you made plans to "have coffee and catch up" some time next week. Guess, what, pal? You might not have said anything strictly over the line. You might not have kissed, touched or even, gasp, fantasized about anything. But there's a reason you're not telling her -- you know that she wouldn't take it well. Well, you might not be cheating-cheating, but you're still cheating. Loving relationships are built on trust, not on the very tactical omissions of certain unpleasant truths. It might be time to look yourself in the mirror and own up to some of your more borderline behaviors, bud. 

*My personal Ps: well, at least you don't mind that we chat with hotter guy and giggles at their jokes in front of you! ;)...  

I am not the jealousy type girl.. But i respect trust and honesty ! If you hide something like this.. You might think about the possibilities to cheat ;). We are not dummy! 

They Worry If You Don't Text Them Back

Text messages are a funny thing, aren't they? They take up zero space in the physical world -- they weigh nothing, they don't smell, and you can ingest an infinite amount without gaining weight -- but as meaningless as they sometimes seem, they secretly are full of meaning. Not all of them, of course -- "Brunch at 10 on Wednesday?" doesn't have the same power as "Baby, what's wrong? Why won't you pick up?" But a non-response to the former is a mere trifle compared to a non response to the latter. Admit it: When you choose not to answer your girlfriend's texts -- right away, or at all -- you're sending a message that they aren't important (and thus she isn't, either.) So be a gentleman, a hero, a knight in shining armor: If she texts you, just text back. (Unless you're driving.)

The Way You Write "I Love You" Matters

Text messages aren't the only little, itsy-bitsy things in the world that matter. Take love, for instance. Well, you may be asking yourself, "What is love?" And the answer, obviously, is "Baby, don't hurt me," and vigorous head-nodding. But A Night at the Roxbury references aside, love is a big deal, and it can manifest itself in your relationships in big ways. If she says, "I love you" and you say, "Me too," chances are, that's not the end of the discussion right there. Similarly, if she texts, "I love you," and you text back, "Luv u 2," you're sending her signals again. While this may seem like a minute detail, it can speak volumes to her about how committed you are to the sentiment -- in this case, not 2 much. If you really want to show her you love her, don't skimp. Use all the letters, and all the pronouns, and don't include any numbers -- unless you're making a heart with the "<" and the "3" at the end of the message.

When She's Mad, She Wants You To Give Her Attention

This may seem counter-intuitive, but when she starts cursing at you, she really wants you to kiss her and tell her you love her. And when she ignores you, give her attention. Fights and spats and disagreements are mended with admissions of wrongdoing, forgiveness and sweet, sweet make-up romance -- not icy cold silence. (See.. It isn't so hard! Hahahah)

One day..

A letter for you, people who i was destined to meet.

A Letter to the One God has Prepared for Me

I am wondering at this very minute if you are thinking of me. If, like me, you are wondering what is taking us so long to find each other.

Many times I thought I finally found you only to be disillusioned by the fact that my wait has not yet ended. I get up each morning, hoping, dreaming and longing to meet you. I am thinking of how we will meet, would it be as romantic as the one I have seen in the movies? Or is it possible that I have known you all my life but we have not yet to realize that we are meant for each other? Oh how I wish you were here right now because you are the only one who has the answer to all my questions.

Sometimes I ask myself if I have ever really known “LOVE”. I do not have the answer to that question either but I believe that, more often than not, we will never really know what love is until we find the right person… And since I have not found you yet, then maybe I do not really know what love is!

You just don’t know how I often dream of finally knowing what it feels like to be in your arms. Even at this very moment, I am imagining how you will simply sweep me off my feet! Perhaps, I’ll be drawn to you by your smile, your eyes, or maybe even how you manage to make me laugh by your silly little ways! I don’t really know for sure but I am praying that God will help me to recognize you when the right time comes.

I think of all the pain that I have gone through in the past and of how much I have cried since the day I began my search. I just wanted to know that I find my strength in clinging onto my vision of the beautiful life ahead of me, the life I shall spend with you. In my mind and in my heart I know that you are worth all that pains and sacrifices. After all, the tears have been a part of my life, slowly washing away my flaws so I’d be perfect, not in its truest sense, but just perfect for you.

I wonder if you’ve gone through so much pain as well and if you’ve been hurt so many times along the journey.
But my dearest one, please don’t ever give up because I am right here, patiently waiting for you. I assure you that when we finally find each other, I’d slowly heal those wounds by my love.

At night, I’d look out my windows and stare at the beautiful sky, hoping that somehow you are also looking up and wondering about me. I’d utter a silent prayer and send all my cries to heavens, thinking that in time, they’d reach you. And when I feel impatient, I just close my eyes and believe that you are on your way and that you are longing to see me as well.

When I finally fall asleep, you are always in my dreams. It seems that for now, that is the only place where I can hold on to you, long enough to tell you how much I LOVE YOU.In my dreams, you would kiss away my fears and wrap me with your ams of love. And this, all the more, makes me want to wake up and face the new day ahead with the hope that soon enough, you will no longer be a dream but a reality.

Once again, I assured that you are worth the wait. By then, I would simply look back and smile at all that I have gone through, inspite of the pain and amidst the simple joys in life - - and I would be very thankful because they all led me to you! In the meantime, take care of yourself for me. Hold on to our dream and don’t even think of letting go.

Believe in your heart that we will find each other no matter what happens.

God has planned the course.

Don’t worry; don’t be afraid of getting lost.

God saw to it all the roads, no matter which one you choose, lead to me..

I am changes!

Hi.
It's been a while since my last post..
So many things changes in my life...
My previous post might look silly, and young-blood craziness!
Im grown up now...

Yes i have 2 awesome children and proud

I moves to north jakarta

And you might not see a romance post anymore like before, since i am now walking alone all by my self... :)

I don't know what to post. Just write this one to say i am back, with my new life and new stories!

Enjoy!