We don’t really walk away from anything in our lives. We simply outgrow them. It’s really rare that anything severs or breaks because of a lack of love. If there weren’t any love, we wouldn’t have bonded or attached to it in the first place.
We don’t walk away because we run out of love. We walk away because we run out of growth.
We walk away not because we aren’t still amazed by someone, but because we know that their plans and our plans are incompatible, and we aren’t willing to sacrifice our souls for their hearts.
Because the truth is that you’re going to fight with every person you are in a relationship with, often about similar things, and with similar intensity. The truth is that you’re going to lose jobs and make enemies absolutely anywhere you live. You cannot immunize yourself to life by placing yourself in perfect circumstances. You cannot escape from reality.
But, We don’t walk away from anything because we stop loving it, we walk away when there’s nothing left to fight for. We walk away when we’re or them no longer willing to change, to adapt, to be BETTER for another person equally.
The truth is that everything is going to hurt you, everything is going to challenge you, everything is going to be difficult sometimes. But the people and places you stay with — the ones you continue to carry with you — are the ones who are willing to go and growing in the same direction as you.
The one worth fight for
The one worth staying for.
they’re the ones in which both people resolve arguments and agree that they never want to fight like that again.
They’re the ones in which two partners have a similar dream to grow, one that glues them together even when times are tough. They’re the ones in which two people are so inherently connected to one another, their futures are entwined, they’re one and the same.
That’s the purpose anything serves in your life: what and who it makes you out to be.
This is how you know whether or not it’s time to let go or to try harder:
you ask yourself whether or not that thing is going to make you a better person or waste of time. You asked your self if you both wanted to grow together.
the spark is going to come and go no matter what. no matter who you are with, the circle will repeat if you aren't willing to grow and learn.
You’re never going to look at a person or place with the same fresh, wild eyes you did when you first were introduced. You’re going to get used to your surroundings. You’re going to get used to each other. The newness is going to fade into normalcy, eventually.
What is going to carry you through these times is not your present, it’s the future you’re committing to creating together. And grow together.
